Friday, September 24, 2010

Changes

Housing Changes
Many of you know that Jay and I have been toying with the idea of purchasing our first place for some time now. This down economy has had an upside. It has allowed us (and others) the privilege to purchase a place that otherwise we would never have been able to afford. At the end of April after getting a good referral to a loan officer and real estate agent, we began our search for a condo locally. We took advantage of an FHA loan with it's low down payment. Most of our weekends from May to August were devoted to viewing listings. We branched out of our comfort zone, only to find we REALLY wanted to stay close to work and family. We found it hard to find the "must haves" of our list in our price range, but knew we wouldn't settle either. We eventually had to up our price and knew this would drastically change our finances. We needed to have an open floor plan, two bedrooms, two bathrooms, TWO parking spaces, and GUEST parking! We put in several offers and had several "let downs" particularly with a place we liked to call the "Disney House." However, God had another place in mind for us and a designated time (Acts 17:26). Around our trip to Encinitas, we got an offer accepted although we had to negotiate, so as to "meet in the middle."

While in Escrow, we learned that Jim and Jen, who have graciously allowed us to live in their condo, needed to sell it by the end of this year to avoid the capital gains tax changes. We're SO thankful that God orchestrated everything that we were already in escrow by the time we found out this news. Since then, Jim and Jen have listed our current home and we were busy packing for our big move. You can view the links to each listing in the email notification you received; due to privacy, I didn't want to post them here.

We can't say that this process has been easy or even fun. Maybe in the beginning, but then it got A LOT harder. The process had its moments of pleasure and disappointment. It's been both physically and emotionally draining up until the very last minute. It was just this evening before our move day, that we actually closed escrow and received our keys, only then to learn our moving truck fell through. But God has faithfully guided us each step of the way, providing encouragement and small reminders of the plans He has for us during those times of disappointment and uncertainty. This house is His and His glory is evident.

 Work Changes
Jay's job has been stable and he continues to have job security. While attending my first ever IRS Tax Forum, my bosses and dear friends Dan and Julie announced to Erin and I that they will be selling their business. Although the terms of the offer are still under negotiation, we do know that Erin and I are being sold along with their firm and will likely receive an increase in pay. Dan and Julie have placed their current home up for sale and plan to move to their new home in Northern California where their kids and grand kids live and where they're purchasing a smaller firm.  The change wasn't necessarily a surprise to us although the timing was. The transfer of ownership is set for October 18th. This of course came at a critical time for us while in escrow. We are happy for them and VERY thankful that they have been so gracious to think of us by ensuring we have job security especially before escrow closed.

IRS Tax Forum 2010
Early this month I attended The IRS Tax Forum held in San Diego near Old Town. Dan, Julie, Erin and I left a day early so that we would have some time to poke around town and register early. After checking into our hotel, we went to Old Town for shopping and dinner. That's when Dan and Julie shared their future plans for the business. The following few days were filled with various tax seminars. It was very informative as there are many new changes for this upcoming tax season. The evenings were spent at the mall right next to our hotel. We'd go shopping and have dinner and just get out and walk around. Our last day after a few seminars that morning, we headed out to Mozy's Cafe for lunch on our drive back home. It was a GREAT time for us as a team (minus Silvia who had started school) considering the changes that we learned were coming.

Gratitude
We just want to thank everyone for their patience in waiting for ALL of these posts. Now you have a better idea of what has been occupying our time. We thank those who have supported us during this journey. Our current condo is mostly packed and we're ready for the challenges of home-ownership. I quite frankly am tired of living with the "bare essentials,"  wiping out our food supply, and using "to read, to send, to file" clips in my hair in the morning, since I accidentally packed them in a box that is of course no where to be found. Thanks again from the new "homeowners."


Welcome to Encinitas

Jay and I have been wanting to visit Matt and Julie down at their home in Encinitas for some time now. With the stress of house hunting and getting ready to start escrow, we needed a little getaway. It worked out great we could go down there for our anniversary weekend. We're SO glad that we did this semi spur of the moment trip, because it was just the medicine we needed for the stress we'd been under. Matt and Julie made our little getaway SO much fun!!

After arriving late morning on Saturday we took them to The Counter where we all enjoyed a late lunch. Then they drove us around a bit and pointed out the local spots. We then went back to their place, just to lounge before they took us to dinner as a treat for our upcoming anniversary.

Here's a local statue that often gets decorated or dressed for various occasions or just because.
It was sporting a wig and dress when we drove by. 
Matt had Jay practice balancing for his unofficial surfing lesson the next day.
Delicious dinner and drinks at Yu Me Ya Sake House
great wall of sake
The next day was spent at the beach 
were I stayed on shore to read, take pictures, and 
soak up the sun, while the gang went out surfing.
Here's them heading out
Matt and Julie who are great instructors!
Julie and Jay
Jay waiting for the "perfect" wave
all three together waiting
catching a ride on waves
surfer Jay
before going home to change, we stopped for DELICIOUS burritos at  Mozy's Cafe
 Syd
give a dog a bone
That evening we cooked a nice dinner together. We had chicken, steak, grilled sweet potato and mango salad, and I made pots de cream for dessert. Julie's grilled salad was amazing!
Monday Jay and I were able to sleep in while Matt and Julie headed to work.
We leisurely got up, partially packed and then headed out for a late breakfast.
We found The Potato Shack Cafe where Jay enjoyed a monstrous pancake combo meal.
His pancake was bigger then a dinner sized plate and looked something like this

Jay's Birthday and San Clemente

Since Jay was on call and had to work on his birthday I made his favorite Greek dish Myzithra.
A few days later Jay's family got together to celebrate Ron and JoAnne's 40th wedding anniversary. 
We went to the San Clemente Ocean Festival and then to dinner at La Siesta
It was great to be together and celebrate such a momentous occasion. Happy 4oth!
watching the paddle boarding relay contest





Father's Day

After battling some complications from Grandpa's gallblader surgery, my grandparents were FINALLY able to make it out. What was supposed to be celebrating Christmas, was now celebrating Father's Day and Grandma's Birthday which happened to fall on the same day. So the families merged for a large celebrations at my parents. Peggy came down again to join in the festivities. It was SO much fun and we laughed a ton and mom's garden was just beautiful in bloom.I just realized, I don't have many pictures of the men, the Fathers. Sorry, after all it was YOUR day. Happy Father's Day!

playing croquet

Mom's showing Nolan the garden. Then he saw a bee in the lavender bush and got scared.
Christina made up some game with Nolan about keeping and balancing a bean bag on your head. 
 boys at play
then they got this idea to swing; we laughed a TON watching
 piggy back rides
playing chicken = lots of giggles
mom's garden
lettuce



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